Blogtember: Keep It Simple


Sunday, Sept. 18: One product that simplifies your life.

I am cheating a little bit on this one. A while back I posted about how much I love my Emily Ley Simplified Planner. I have to have a paper planner and it took me a while to find the perfect one but now I couldn’t live without this planner. So I am going to link back to that post so you can all read my raves about Emily Ley and my weekly Simplified Planner! Enjoy!


I can’t wait to see what product keeps your life simple? I can always use suggestions keeping it simple around here!


Blogtember: Relax




Friday, Sept. 16: How do you de-stress/take care of yourself?

By my nature I will give every last drop of myself to someone else. I have been burned by this in friendships and relationships many times in the past. But I think I have finally gotten to a place where the people in my life don’t take advantage of this fact. That being said I am the one who gets the phone calls when people are having a crisis at work or with their significant other. I get the phone call when there is a huge event coming up and they have nothing to wear and have to go shopping that very moment. I get the call when someone needs help picking out a gift. My phone blows up a lot.

Will has had many dinners interrupted by a friend with a boyfriend crisis. He has had to pause tv shows and movies more times than he can count because my phone won’t stop ringing. He is a trooper.

Because this is my default state I do sometimes have to remind myself to step back, turn off my phone and take some time to fill up my own tank. How can I help anyone else if my tank is empty.

One of the simplest ways for me to do this is to leave my phone at home. Stop and pick up a coffee and then head to my favorite nail salon for a mani/pedi. I always bring a book and read during my pedicure. Just this simple act has a way of relaxing me and I always feel better with my nails done.


Another major way for me to relax is to sneak off to Will’s parent’s beach house for a weekend. That is the most relaxing place in the world to me. Drinking coffee on the porch, watching the sunset and reading on the beach recharge my batteries all the way.

I am really lucky to have a husband who notices when I am in need of a little recharge and reminds me to go take care of myself.

Well 15 days in to blogtember and I haven’t missed a day. All that will sadly change tomorrow. Tomorrow’s prompt was to do a vlog. I was really hesitant about this from the first time I saw it and just wasn’t sure it was something I wanted to do. Well it didn’t really matter since I never figured out a topic, time to do it or way to record it before we left for a wedding in NYC. So I will miss this one but I can’t wait to come back and see what everyone else did!

Blogtember: Adventures



Thursday, Sept. 15: What is the craziest adventure you’ve ever been on?

There are so many ways to go with this. I could get all philosophical on you and say the greatest adventure was meeting and getting married to my husband. And that is true. There has been no greater adventure than convincing this very independent northern city girl to settle down and marry a southern boy. But I decided to go a bit more literal and talk about some of the things I have seen and done that are also adventurous.

I mentioned our honeymoon briefly in a previous blogtember post but it was definitely a crazy adventure from start to finish. When we were offered the opportunity to go to Hawaii for our honeymoon we had two options, Kona on the Big Island, or Maui. After consulting a friend who was actually born in Hawaii we opted for Kona because he said it was less touristy and more of an authentic Hawaiian experience.

We still could have chosen to lay on the beach the entire time we were there but we didn’t. We jokingly referred to our honeymoon as seeing Hawaii by land, air and sea.

By land: hiking the volcano national park and driving all over the island

By air: helicopter ride over an active volcano and ziplining over waterfalls

By sea: boat ride, snorkeling and swimming in the bluest water I have ever seen

We explored so hard on our honeymoon. We hiked and drove to random sites and swam and tried new food and basically said yes to trying anything that came our way. It wasn’t the honeymoon for everyone but it was perfect for us and it was definitely the craziest adventure I have ever been on.

What is the craziest adventure you have ever been on? Do you prefer a more relaxed honeymoon or one full of adventures?

Blogtember: Mood Board


Wednesday, Sept. 14: Make a mood board! Are you brainstorming a room re-do, a capsule wardrobe, or already planning for the holidays? Show us your ideas!

I knew there would be tons of cozy fall and winter mood boards and some amazing holiday themed ones. There would probably also be some great room re-do ones that would give me all the heart eyes. So I knew if I did any of them I would just compare mine and think that everyone else had done a way better job!

I was struggling for a theme when my mother-in-law fussed at me the other day that she needed some birthday present ideas. So here is my birthday wish-list mood board!



Vest // Perfume // Sneakers // Book // Bracelet // Bowl // Tea

The great thing about my November birthday is that it is far enough away from Christmas that I never get cheated but close enough that anything I don’t get for my birthday can just roll on to the Christmas list!

Special note on the Snarky Tea, this is a BRAND NEW company started by a friend I used to work with. She is off being an amazing entrepreneur now and I miss working with her. But her Snarky Tea is so great. I love tea but it is always so calming and tranquil in its packaging. These names are SO much better and fit great in real life! Go check them out!

What are you dreaming of this season? Anything already on your must-have Christmas list?

Blogtember: Freaky Friday


Tuesday, Sept. 13: If you could switch lives with someone for a day, who would it be? Why?

As I sit in the living room thinking up my answer to this I decided to pose the question to my husband. His response cracked me up.

Will: Oprah

Me: Why?

Will: She is a baller. She can basically do whatever she wants. And I want to just go around giving people shit. You get a car!

Not what I expected from him but it definitely made me laugh.

Now who would I switch lives with? I feel like I could go a couple different directions with this.


Cam Newton: it would be awesome to be an NFL quarterback with incredible talent for one Sunday. This switch would have to be on a Sunday.


Kanye West: I don’t always like him but you can’t deny the man has a genius mind for music. I can’t carry a tune in a bucket so it would be incredible to see what goes on in his head for a day.

But ultimately I landed on one.


Barack Obama: Feel however you want about politics it would be incredible to be the president for one day. That’s probably as long as I could handle it too.

The moral of the story here is that I seem to want to be a black man for a day. I could probably learn a lot in that day!

Who would you switch lives with for a day?



Books, Books, Books

I’m double dipping in today’s very nerdy, book post. Today’s Blogtember prompt was about books and I needed to do my post for the Books ‘n’ Bloggers Swap so I am combining them!


My partner for the CG Swap was Amber who does a YouTube Vlog instead of a traditional blog. Props to her because there is no way you all would want to look at my hot mess self when I am blogging!


She sent me The Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert from my wish list. Anne of Green Gables and The First Fifteen Lives of Harry August by Claire North. I have read Anne of Green Gables before but not since high school and I definitely want to read it again since Netflix is producing a new series. I can honestly say I have never heard of the last book but it’s got great reviews and I am really excited to read it.

I also got a cute stuffed owl, some owl page notes and a bookmark. Great job by Amber since I LOVE owls. They are all over the house. So much so that when my husband saw a new stuffed owl come out of the box he groaned. #sorrynotsorry Also Amber did a great job wrapping each book with little notes, but I got excited and ripped them all open before I took the photo. Oops.

Head over to see what I sent Amber too! I got all three of her books from my local used book store. I love buying used books. I prefer to think of them as previously loved!



Monday, Sept. 12: Three books! One you just read, one you’re currently reading, and one you want to read.


The book I just read was Summerland by Elin Hilderbrand. I inhaled this book while I was at the beach over the weekend. Her books are just perfect for beach reading in my opinion and I really enjoyed this one.

I am currently reading C is for Corpse by Sue Grafton. I have been going through the alphabet series again. I read A-J a while ago but never kept it up. This time I am going to get all the way through. Kinsey Milhone is my spirit animal with all her snark and attitude.

The one I want to read is actually three. The three I got from Amber above. I will probably start with the Elizabeth Gilbert book because she is my fav. But I will get through all three very soon.

So here are all my bookish things for the week. Gotta go read!

What books have you read lately? What is on your must-read list?

Blogtember: Instagram



Sunday, Sept. 11: Round up of your favorite Instagrammers! Who should we follow?

I tend to keep my Instagram follows to people I know in real life. And while I am obsessed with pictures of my friends kids and pets and trips to Starbucks you may not be. So I racked my brain and came up with a few accounts that you may life too.

  1. Carolina Panthers. You will definitely notice that football is a big part of life around here and we love our Carolina Panthers. They do a great job on their social media and I love their graphics and behind the scenes photos.
  2. All She Wrote Notes. This is a combination of someone I know in real life and an amazing business. She is a calligrapher who happens to be one of my dearest friends. Seriously, her shop and classes are amazing and I am so proud of her.
  3. Emily Ley. Not only does this woman keep my life organized as the creator of the Simplified Planner but her Instagram is a wonderful mix of quotes
  4. Danielle Flake. For all the dreamy wedding photos follow my favorite photographer. She also happens to have shot our wedding. She is amazing.

What are your favorite instagram accounts?